Monday, March 19, 2007

Milestones

I decided I'd sign up for the blog this month on my birthday, so I wouldn't forget! To blog, I mean, not that it's my birthday. I figured I'd remember that, if barely. If I'm really into whatever I am writing at the moment, I tend to have trouble going beyond remembering just writing, and picking up my kids, those two essentials. That must be why along with blogging time I also scheduled my car's 25,000 mile maintenance tomorrow. So I'd remember to take the car in. And of course, what could be better than taking your car in to the Toyota dealer on your birthday?

Two dear friends took me out to lunch on Saturday - to celebrate both my then upcoming birthday and my son's, just passed, at a really nice little French restaurant up on Melrose Ave. in West Hollywood (which served a great chocolate souffle.) I digress. (but then blogs are sort of for digression) . They kept having to remind me that it was my birthday, too, when I joined the waiters in singing Happy Birthday to my son, but over-rode my own name. Oops.

Apparently, along with remembering to blog and maintain my car properly I do need someone to tell me that it's my birthday.

My friends kept pointing out to me that this was a milestone birthday and not only should I stop forgetting it, I should do something special - but it doesn't really feel like a milestone birthday, you know, one of those birthdays that end in zero and don't begin with a one. I think I'd worry if it did feel like a milestone. Life is a work in progress. A constant rewrite. A calendar page you forget to read.

Besides, I am doing something special, along with taking my car in for an oil change, that is. I'm going to write. I'm going to read. I'm going to spend some time with my kids and my husband and get Thai take-out.

I like milestones just as much as the next person, but not in terms of birthdays. I'm not worried about getting older, I'm not even concerned, particularly, over whether or not the glycolic acid #15 that supposedly eliminates wrinkles is working on those pesky things around my eyes. Well, I'm concerned to the extent that I did spend too much money on the stuff, so I hope it's doing SOMETHING other than getting on my hands when I rub my eyes, and then on my pen, which I chew on sometimes when I write. Nasty. Maybe your wrinkles vanish when you ingest the stuff.

Anyway, I prefer milestones in terms of books I've written. Books I've sold!

There, books - now I can officially and somewhat neatly segue into the true Tuesday topic which is -

BOOKS.

I always have several going, my gym book, my car book (no, I don't read and drive, but I have been known to read while I pump gas, I have an SUV, and the cheapest gas station around, the local Arco, has verrry slow pumps) and my night table book (s). I have a fairly eclectic group of books right now - JAR CITY, an Icelandic mystery - I'm enjoying it tremendously, but how many American police detectives subsist on "junk food" like cold sheepshead? I'm also finishing both CHARMING JO and CHAMPAGNE RULES.

The authors of two of these books - Laura Drewry and Susan Lyons - are part of this blog. They do not appear to consume sheepshead, nor do their characters, but they're wonderful writers.

Anyway, veering back to milestones - I consider myself very lucky indeed to be a part of this blog, and a part of this group with so much talent. Now that's a milestone which doesn't require the application of gycolic acid #15.

Genie Davis
Five O'Clock Shadow - OUT NOW!

5 comments:

Sally MacKenzie said...

Happy birthday, Genie! My birthday is this week, too, though I suspect I'm racking up a higher number than you are. Haven't tried the wrinkle cream, though I do find myself thinking more about cosmetic weapons to combat the ravages of time. Still, I'm trying to embrace aging--or as my husband might say, truth in advertising.

Nancy Morse said...

Happy birthday, Genie! I have discovered the 4 magic ingredients for women of a "certain" age: glycolic acid, Retinol, DMAE and DermaFreeze, for those 3 words all women long to hear: smooth, firm and lift.

And a happy birthday to you, too, Sally.

Nancy Herkness said...

Many happy returns to you, Genie and Sally! I'm about to hit a birthday with a zero after it and I agree that I prefer not to consider it a milestone. In fact, I've already decided that I'm sticking at the birthday with a nine after it for the next ten years. Then I'll bump it up a decade.

Geniewrites2 said...

Thank you Sally, Nancy, and Nancy!

I like the dermafreeze, the keeping at a nine, and the embracing ideas all.

Sally, happy birthday to you, too.

First day of spring today as well and it's raining, yuck. Spoken like a now-west-coast girl - it used to be snow that made me go yuck.

Genie

Sierra Donovan said...

Happy birthday Genie!!

As it happens, I've just started trying Avon's version of the eye wrinkle cream (running to the medicine chest to see if it has glycolic acid #15). Maybe we should compare notes in a couple of weeks!

I love to read, but I rarely tackle more than one fiction book at a time -- it makes me feel like I'm being "unfaithful"!

Sierra